Sermon – A New Way of Seeing

There is plenty of time to be careful about that for which we pray; this month perhaps we might just indulge the Dream-maker just a little. Who knows what might be envisioned?

Sermon Jan 1.2012

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So how are we doing?

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I am a big believer in the power of stories to form and transform lives.

As leaders, if we are unaware of the power and detail of our own story we may be shocked when a mine hidden in our past explodes when stepped upon by someone else. Although the parallels are not exact for the stories of groups, many parallels exist for congregations. (See James F. Hopewell, Congregation: Stories and Structures).

I have now been at Oak Bay United Church about 3 months. Much of that time has been spent trying to figure out the details of what is going on and how they fit into the larger story of the congregation.

This sermon is my first attempt to respond publically to the question I often receive – “So how do you think we’re doing anyway?”

sermon 11.20.11 (State of the cong)

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In the midst of milk and honey

I don’t know if you have ever lived on the edge of such bounty and comfort in your life but it is powerful stuff.

I grew up in a relatively small place about 12-15 miles from the American border. And almost every year, our family would spend one of the two paid weeks of vacation my Dad received setting up camp outside of Spokane Washington.

Sermon 11.13.11

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Heresy and Hospitality

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One of the ways Emerging Spirit talked of the shift in the spiritual and generational foundations of our time was through a focus on the words believe, behave and belong.

In times past, if one was curious about being a Christian the entry point was often a conversation about beliefs. Many very bright and gifted people spent their lives wrestling with and writing through the meaning and implications of beliefs deemed central to Christian discipleship. Once some framework of belief was pieced together, the conversation then usually shifted to the implications of these beliefs for personal and societal behaviour. Once there was some understanding of beliefs and compliance with various standards of Christian behaviour then one belonged (to the church, to the Christian family).

Now that order has flipped. The entry point for people, especially (but not limited to) those under the age of 45 is their experience of belonging. The phrases vary – we just never seemed to click, we never felt at home, I knew I belonged, we got it almost as soon as we walked through the door – but the core message remains the same.

The prime – and often only – criteria through which a Christian community is judged initially is through their practice of hospitality.

Now the answer to the question – where a good church? – is not determined initially by a congregation’s adherence or flexibility with respect to a certain set of beliefs but by how welcome people (and particularly their children) feel. The acuteness of people’ antennae used to be around how the name of Jesus was used, which creeds were said or sermons preached; now, with just as much rigor, the signals being processed go beyond superficial friendliness right to the heart of congregational culture. Are these people really serious about accepting and welcoming me and my family? What signals are they sending?

The shift in initial focus has moved from heresy to hospitality.

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Meetings – weapons of mass interruption

If an apocalyptic meltdown of the national umbrella of the United Church does occur – as some predict – what will be the last things standing? The Pension Fund (I hope); the Standard Salary Schedule; our penchant for meetings?

A friend casually remarked that the roots of the system upon which ours is based actually reach back before the time of the telephone.

Historically meetings have served many purposes – information sharing, an excuse to socialize and organize and, occasionally, to make or (double) check decisions.

Al Pittampalli’s e-book, Read This Before Our Next Meeting probes the role of the much maligned meeting in this postmodern time. (And in this the subtitle perhaps misleads – “the modern meeting standard for successful organizations.”) He seeks to redefine the purpose and style of meetings.

Seven principles define his understanding.

  1. The Modern Meeting supports a decision that has already been made.
  2. The Modern Meeting moves fast and ends on schedule.
  3. The Modern Meeting limits the number of attendees.
  4. The Modern Meeting rejects the unprepared.
  5. The Modern Meeting produces committed action plans.
  6. The Modern Meeting refuses to be informational. Reading memos is mandatory.
  7. The Modern Meeting works only alongside a culture of brainstorming.

Pittampalli is not against meetings. In fact, echoing George Clooney’s stance on marriage, they matter so much that he cannot abide bad ones. “If an operating room were as sloppily as we run as our meetings, patients would die.” Since meetings are so tightly woven into the fabric of many organizations, much has been written in recent years about effective meetings. (See Patrick Lencioni, Death by Meeting)

From a church point of view, a helpful contribution of Pittampalli is his identification of how poor meetings not only are a leadership and management issue but a spiritual one.

Bad meetings corrode the spirit.

They dilute responsibility. “We’re now all addicted to meetings that insulate us from the work we ought to be doing.”

Worse, mediocre meetings create a culture of compromise and kill any sense of urgency. Viewed positively, these may have been the original purpose behind meetings – compromise and a sense of sober deliberation – but the shadow side proves devastating in truly urgent times. In too many cases, meetings have become a way of diluting urgency or deflecting hard decisions so, as in the church, even though we can see marks of the future clearly on the horizon, we seem unable to make the necessary decisions.

At their best, effective meetings help an organization move forward. When that fails to happen, hope begins to rust and discouragement, if not despair, takes root.

Pittampalli contends that meetings are for making and defending strong decisions.

The brevity of the book means reading is not difficult; however, for those of us in the church too many of his insights ring too true and it may require therapy to deal with all the memories of boring, ineffective, spirit sapping and ultimately expensive meetings we have been required to endure.

If you have an e-reader the book is worth a download.

In the end though it reflects the general shape of postmodern leadership. Effective leaders spend much of their time thinking “up front,” deliberating about outcomes and strategy rather than just simply resorting to old patterns whether it comes to dealing with information, making decisions, or calling meetings.

“Like war, (meetings) are a means of last resort.”

 

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Connection and Conversation – What it’s All About

One of the books of which I have long been fond is Susan Scott’s Fierce Conversations. Her company, Fierce, has put out a  SHORT white paper on the role of good conversations/relationships viewed from the business sector. I think there is lots to learn here for the church. Turning Conversations in a Driving Force for Growth and Success.

These quotes from Business leaders struck me.

Fierce President and COO Halley Bock puts it this way: “If you improve conversations, you improve relationships, which has a positive impact on key areas … including the bottom line.”

Starbucks’ Schultz has said his company is not in the coffee business, but in the people business serving coffee, and he built the company and its success squarely on his belief in the power of engaged employees.

“People directly affect the quality of products and services our customers receive,” Schultz wrote. “People will determine the ultimate success of Starbucks. Products are inert. You have to hire great people [and] celebrate their passions and their skills, and give them the freedom to do their jobs right.”

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So what are you going to do now?

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The pieces are coming together. In summary, my immediate future looks like the following:

  • Victoria presbytery has appointed me to Oak Bay United Church, ¾ time, for up to two years, commencing August 15th.
  • BC Conference has given a contract focusing upon research and leadership development, ¼ time, from September 2011 to May 2012.
  • I will continue to be part of the Vancouver School of Theology Studio for Strategic Leadership from September 2011 through April 2012. The Studio meets approximately every second Monday, September through November and January through March.

The immediate task will be time management.

I am excited about the mix. It is one thing to travel the country talking about the next chapter in the life of the church; it is quite another to be on the front lines. After five years away from congregational work, I was beginning to feel the distance between memory and practice. And I am excited to be working with the team and congregation of Oak Bay!

The contract with BC Conference will allow continuation of the work on leadership that has emerged as a key interest and will combine both research and attention to the “so what?” question. If BC Conference is serious about pursuing its stated goal of effective leadership what vision would fuel this and which next steps need to be taken by whom? Real questions that impact the life of real people.

The VST Studio forces me to articulate the theory and practices of effective strategic leadership that I feel, practice and have seen implemented. The Studio format frees me from exclusively occupying the sage on the stage role and allows me to expect discovery.

We will create a blog at Oak Bay United Church’s website, oakbayunitedchurch.ca, to explore some aspects of stepping back into the toughest job in the church, congregational leadership. Other reflections I will post on this blog. So to all those who have asked, “So what are you going to do now?” this is the answer … so far.

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Sign up for a New Free Webinar on Leadership

My friend Kevin sent me the URL to this video on leadership. Some days it feels too familiar.

On Friday, I’ll be launching my second webinar – with better sound this time! The official blurb reads:

Leadership in the time Between
The command and control model of leadership yields significant results
in certain contexts – like World War II. Now this model has
diminishing returns in a congregational setting. Even though most
congregations would deny that they search for a general or a hero to
lead them through these times leaders are often torn between competing
expectations. This 45 minute webinar looks at another model of
leadership that may be appropriate for leading congregations through
times of transformational change.

You can register for this free webinar at

http://blogs.united-church.ca/edge/transformation/webinars/leadership-time-between/

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A Call to Witness (Stephen)

When the future is uncertain and the old ways no longer secure we seek heroes and salvation.  We are in need of heroes, those who will display courage and self-sacrifice for the greater good, heroes who will stand up and stand against that which threatens to diminish and destroy life, heroes who will take a stand and help us stand. Perhaps it has always been. The first Captain America Comic appeared in March 1941. “The first Canadian national superheroes – NelvanaJohnny Canuck, and Canada Jack– also emerged during the Second World War.” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canadian_comics)

Sermon 5.22.11 (Stephen blog)

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Sign up to my Papa’s free WEBINAR

As part of my exit from the work of Emerging Spirit I have been requested to offer some webinars. The first will be next Thursday, May 19th, at 11:00 am Vancouver Canucks time (Pacific time).

The promo runs like this:

Future models of church
If one thing is clear about these uncertain times it is that there will be no one model of church that emerges in the coming decades. This 45 minute webinar will propose some directions that may come alive in the Canadian context. Conversation will be encouraged about the feasibility of these models and their place, if any, in relation to the current congregational structure. Leaders who may be wondering about a different call than that of service to a congregation are encouraged to test their sense of “possible” call against the options presented.

I have presented a version of this at other places and people have found it a helpful way to open the windows and see what might be. Personally I am growing more interested in what does the church do if someone says, “yeah, that’s me! That’s exactly what God is calling me to do!” Do we say “Blessings!” (aka good luck) or can we be of more assistance? Lots of questions involved that deal not only with the nature of the church but discernment of call and all the rest.

No guarantee to answer all the questions but I am interested in the conversation.

Registration happens at:

http://blogs.united-church.ca/edge/transforming-ed/webinars/keith-howard/

And it’s free. (Of course, once I’m out of work after June 30th, the price will have to rise considerably! )

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